Monday, December 14, 2009

Christmas in China

Some of you have asked if the Chinese celebrate Christmas. I'm sure there are some Christian Chinese who celebrate. There are even some Chinese members of the Church here, but we don't know who they are. We can't associate with them. Anyway, Christmas as a commercial holiday is slowly starting to creep in. We went to the grocery store this morning and there were a few decorations on the walls in the store. We hope you enjoy the pictures.

The following pictures are:
1. The hotel lobby in Beijing.
2. Outside our hotel in Ji'nan.
3. Brian, outside the hotel in Ji'nan.
4. Brian and Lugene in their apartment with their Christmas tree. We found it in a box that was left by previous teachers.
5. The Han Lin hotel lobby (our hotel in Ji'nan).
6. The hall by the elevator.
7. The tree by the elevator. (The tree needs a little work!)
8. Our apartment door.











December 6, 2009

Today at 8:00 a.m. we went with some other foreign teachers to Qufu. Qufu is the place, where Confucius lived, studied and was buried. It was a very cold day. Besides Lugene and me, Eric and Christine Sorenson, Trent Copeland and the foreign Korean teacher went.

Qufu is a city of about 600,000 people about a two hour drive from Ji’nan. As most people know, Confucius was a Chinese thinker and social philosopher, whose teachings and philosophy have deeply influenced Chinese, Korean, Japanese and Vietnamese thought and life.

His philosophy emphasized personal and governmental morality, correctness of social relationships, justice and sincerity. He also promoted building a harmonious society. This has been the theme of Hu Jintao, the current president of China. Confucius' thoughts have been developed into a system of philosophy known as Confucianism.

After our visits to the Confucius sites we did some tourist shopping. Lugene bought a fan and I bought a large tiger painting. I thought the painting was very cool! We got back to our apartment about 5:15.











Who would have though??

Lugene and I do not teach classes on Friday, so we use that day to get food from the market. We went to the street market about 9:00. While we were waiting to get some tomatoes, a Chinese man about 30 years old started talking to us in English. Lugene commented to him that he spoke English well. He said he had just returned from the United States where he was working on his doctor’s degree in computer science. I asked him where he was studying in the United States. He said Utah! What a small world. He is getting his degree at Utah State in Logan. We told him we are sponsored by Brigham Young University. He said, “Oh, BYU. I know that school.” Who would have thought we would have this chance meeting among the 1.3 billion people in China.



When we were in China four years ago as tourists, we were in Shanghai. We were at a huge market full of people. We had bought an ice cream cone and were leaning against a wall eating it. A man came up to us and started talking to us in English. He asked where we lived in the United States. We told him Utah. He said, "Oh, are you Mormons?" He had a brother who was a member of the Church who lives in Provo. Who would have thought!!!!

Thanksgiving in Beijing

You can view some pictures at http://thanksgivinginbeijing.shutterfly.com/#n_19?role=-1.


Thursday, November 26 (Thanksgiving Day)
We left Ji’nan at 7:00 AM on the bullet train to Beijing. Lugene and I went along with JoAnn and Sarah and Richard and Paula Watkins. The train goes about 128 miles per hour. Beijing is about 220 miles from Ji’nan. It took us about 3 hours to get there. Marvin Wu, our travel coordinator, arranged for a small bus to pick us up and take us to the hotel. Our guide while we were in Beijing was named Jean. She met us ant get us checked in to the hotel. We stayed in the Mercur hotel. It is about a 30 minute walk from Tian’anmen square.
After we got checked in we walked to the end of the block and ate lunch. It was in a Portuguese restaurant and was quite good. We then went to the “huge” Beijing bookstore that was across the street. The Watkins had been invited to Thanksgiving dinner by some American friends of theirs, so we separated from them after the bookstore.
Sarah, JoAnn, Lugene and I got a taxi and went to the Silk Market. This is a large, multi-floored building that sales all kinds of souvenirs and other goods to tourists. We had a lot of fun. We bought gifts for the children and grandchildren and some gifts for ourselves. Lugene got her a very nice pearl and jade necklace and bracelet and a large fan that she has wanted for a long time. Lugene and I decided we wouldn’t criticize each other’s purchases since we have different ideas of what we want/need.
That evening we went to the mall by the hotel for dinner and then “crashed”. I guess we were tired from the trip and shopping. We thought about the children and their Thanksgiving festivities but knew that we would be with them next year.

Friday, November 27
The hotel offered a complimentary breakfast that was both American and Chinese. All the Americans enjoyed it because they had bacon, omelets, French toast, etc. After breakfast we all loaded on a bus and went to Tian’anmen Square. We walked passed Mao’s tomb (but didn’t go in). We saw the old main gate to Beijing from when it had a wall that encircled the area where the square, the Forbidden City and other parts of old Beijing are located. We also saw the Chinese monument to unknown soldiers. Supposedly, the square is the largest public square in the world.
After the square we crossed the street (underground) and walked through the Forbidden City. The Forbidden City was the Chinese imperial palace from the Ming Dynasty to the end of the Qing Dynasty. It is located in the middle of Beijing, China, and now houses the Palace Museum. For almost five centuries, it served as the home of the Emperor and his household, as well as the ceremonial and political centre of Chinese government.
Built from 1406 to 1420, the complex consists of 980 surviving buildings with 8,707 bays of rooms and covers 7,800,000 sq ft. The palace complex exemplifies traditional Chinese palatial architecture, and has influenced cultural and architectural developments in East Asia and elsewhere. The Forbidden City was declared a World Heritage Site in 1987, and is listed by UNESCO as the largest collection of preserved ancient wooden structures in the world.
Our tour guide taught us many things including the Chinese tradition that the dragon represents man and the Phoenix represents woman. We also learned how to tell whether a Chinese lion statue is male or female. The male statue has his foot on a ball that represents man’s control of the universe, and the female dragon has her foot on a lion cub. Most buildings of significance in China have the two lions on either side of the main door.
After a Chinese lunch in a local restaurant we went to the site of the 2008 Olympics. We toured the “bird’s nest” stadium where the opening and closing ceremonies were held. We also saw the “water cube” where the swimming competitions were held. While riding the bus, our tour guide explained that Beijing means the northern capital, Nanjing is the southern capital, and Xian is the western capital.
From the Olympic site we went to the Temple of Heaven. This is a temple on a hill (now a large park) where the Emperor would go three times a year to offer animal sacrifices and pray for a good harvest. There is a building north of the temple that is known as God’s sleeping room. Since the Chinese didn’t know what God looked like, they kept a piece of wood in the room with a sign on it saying “God”. They would take this piece out of the “sleeping room” when the Emperor came to pray and place it in the temple. Prior to his tri-annual visit, the Emperor would fast for three days. (We saw some similarities between this practice and some Old Testament practices.)
While riding in the bus, our tour guide explained that the reason Chinese homes have hearths at the bottom of their doors is to keep the evil spirits (ghosts) out. Apparently, since the ghosts don’t walk, they aren’t able to step over the hearth. Most homes also have a screen in the homes’ entrance. This is also to keep the ghosts out since they can’t turn corners and thus get around the screen to go into the house. She also told us ghosts are afraid of the color red. This is one of the reasons you see red so often in China. The guide also taught us to say “mǎmahūhū”. This means so-so or fair. For example, if some asked if you spoke Chinese, you could use this as your answer. Everyone liked it, because it has such a funny sound in English.
In the evening we had dinner and then went to a Chinese acrobatic show. It was similar to the one we saw in Ji’nan, but had a few more exciting elements.

Saturday, November 28, 2009
After breakfast, we loaded the bus and headed for the Great Wall of China. The wall is in the mountains about 1 ½ hours from the city. On the way we stopped at a government jade factory. We rode a tram up the mountain to the wall because it was so far away. Since the wall is in the mountains, it was very cold. We didn’t stay at the wall for a long time. We bought a few souvenirs and then returned to Beijing.
While traveling, our tour director told us a joke about Deng Xiaoping, Mikhail Gorbachev, and Ronald Reagan. It happened the three of them were walking together and they came to a fork in the road. The sign pointing in one direction said “Capitalism” and the one pointing the other way said “Socialism”. Reagan had no problem choosing to go down the capitalism road. Gorbachev hesitated a few minutes and then followed Reagan. Deng hesitated even longer. He then reversed the signs and went down the capitalism road that was now named socialism. It’s really interesting. During the National Days celebration, the commentators kept referring to the Chinese way of life as “socialism with Chinese characteristics”!
On the return trip we also stopped at a cloisonné factory. We bought an egg and a Christmas ornament. After lunch we went to the Summer Palace.
The Summer Palace was built as a summer home for the Imperial family. The Forbidden City was unbearably hot during the summer, so they had the Summer Palace built around an artificial lake where it was much cooler. The Dowager Empress Cixi enlarged and improved the complex. It has the world’s longest enclosed and painted archway. There is also a marble boat that sits on the edge of the lake. There is also a large Buddhist temple by the lake. After the Summer Palace we toured a Hutong. These are places with Beijing where they have preserved the old homes and narrow streets that were there prior to the 1970’s when Beijing began its expansion into a more modern city. It was late in the afternoon (evening) when we went to the Hutong so it was hard to see a lot because it was so dark.
In the evening we had dinner at a nice Chinese restaurant where we had Beijing (Peking) Duck. This is a famous recipe and an experience all tourists have to have. While traveling to the restaurant, our travel guide told us an old Chinese story. The emperor found a beautiful young girl in a village and forced her to come back to the Forbidden City as one of his concubines. She was very beautiful, but very sad and never smiled. One day the Emperor decided to take her to see the Great Wall, hoping this would make her happy. While there the girl asked what the tall tower was for. The Emperor explained that if the guards saw enemy troops approaching, they would build a fire in the tower. This would alert the dukes and princes that there was a problem and they would send their soldiers to fight the invaders. They girl asked the Emperor if he would build such a fire so she could see it. Wanting to please her he did so. Soon the dukes and princes showed up with their armies. The girl smiled at the confusion she had caused, but the dukes and princes were not happy and soon returned to their kingdoms. A week later the wall was attacked by the enemy. A fire was built in the tower, but no one came to help fight because they assumed it was another false alarm. Because of this the Emperor was killed by the enemies. (This reminded us of the story we had all heard about the young boy who “cried wolf”.)

Sunday, November 29, 2009
Today we all went to Sacrament meeting at the Beijing 1st Branch. The meetings are held on the 4th floor of an office building. The area has been remodeled so there is a chapel, classrooms and offices. The branch had their Children’s Sacrament meeting program. It was very nice. All of the children gave talks in English and shared some scriptures in Chinese.
As we have mentioned earlier, we cannot share the gospel with the Chinese citizens. The branch meeting bulletin contained the following statement that is read each Sunday to the congregation.
“It is important for foreign members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints living in or visiting China to be aware of the unique restrictions on religious activities here. While China permits freedom of religious belief, it requires all religious activities in China comply with relevant laws and regulations. We would like to remind you of the following:
1. No active or passive proselyting is permitted among local nationals in China,
2. Only individuals who hold foreign passports, and their spouses, may attend meetings or other activities of this branch,
3. No foreign nationals are permitted to participate in activities of any kind with Chinese nationals who are members of our church, and
4. Religious materials may not be disseminated to Chinese nationals in China.
Your strict observance of these rules enables us to build a foundation of trust with government authorities and enables us to continue to meet together as the government permits us to do so.”
After sacrament meeting we went to lunch at the home of President and Sister Lewis. President Lewis is the branch president of the Beijing International branch (Ji’nan is a group off this branch) and Sister Lewis is the Branch Relieve Society president. They fed us a wonderful Thanksgiving meal with turkey and all of the trimmings. It was really good. Lugene was set apart as the Relief Society leader of the Jinan area of the church. President Lewis told as the emotional story of how the office building was chosen as a site to hold the church meetings. They have a beautiful home in a “gated” community about 50 minutes away from the church site and away from Beijing. She has a maid who helped her prepare for the luncheon. Lugene told her it was the first time she had seen an actual oven in 3 ½ months. President Lewis is a lawyer and they have lived in China over 12 years. They have 6 children, but only one child, a son named Paul, is left at home now. They have a daughter at BYU, a daughter on a mission and other married children. They had their driver take us to the train station in a bus (a large van or small bus). They were very gracious. Their counselors also had dinner with us. They are Brother and Sister Ricks, humanitarian volunteers from Rexburg, Idaho. Also Brother and Sister Sherbert from St. George, Utah, attended. They are from California originally. They are teachers at one of the top Universities in Beijing. He teaches law.
We left their home at 3:00 p.m. to go to the train station. On the way there we saw a Papa John’s pizza establishment. In addition, we have now seen McDonalds, Pizza Hut and KFC. Apparently there is a Sizzler in Beijing as well. We got on the bullet train at 7:05 PM and arrived back at our apartment in Ji’nan about 9:00 p.m.

Mid November Update

A small update to what's happening to the Wests in China. Last night we went to see the Shandong acrobats perform. It was quite a spectacle. They are very good and do lot's of dangerous things and twist their bodies into strange positions. It's hard to believe.

Today we went to the opening ceremonies of the United States and Shandong (that's our province) Culture exhibit. Jon Huntsman, the U.S. Ambassador was there. I never got to meet him in Utah, so guess what . . .? Anyway, there are some pictures attached. Thursday we leave for Beijing for the Thanksgiving weekend. It's hard to believe, but we need the break from teaching.

The teaching is going well. It seems like all we do is prepare lessons and correct papers. But, we do take time to have fun. The students are great and all of the Chinese are friendly and helpful.

We hope all is well with everyone at home. Have a happy Thanksgiving!!!





Ladies Man

"I guess I am enjoying my classes a little too much. I had an 8:20 oral English class at the West campus. I had to leave the apartment at 7:00 in order to catch the 7:30 bus. The class goes until 9:55, or an hour and 35 minutes. The bus to return to the main campus leaves at 10:10. Anyway, I’m teaching away having fun with the class and one of the young girl students hands me a note. It says, “Excuse me, Mr. West. It’s time for your bus”. I look at my watch and it’s 10:09. I grab my things and head down to the bus stop, but I’m too late the bus has already gone. Some of the students went with me. I guess to give me moral support. When we discovered the bus was gone, we went back to the classroom. Most of the students were still there. I asked them if they wanted to continue talking. So, we spent another hour and a half talking about Utah, my family, national parks, food, clothing, colors, etc."

This is really a fun class. There is always a contingent of young girls waiting for my bus in the morning so they can escort me to class!!

I am so special

You can't help but love it over here. I told your mother (Lugene) that it will be hard to come home where no one thinks we are special. I have my English writing students email their assignments to me. I have an automated response that let's them know I have received their email. It says: "I have received your message and will respond as soon as possible." The following is from one of my students who had sent me her assignment. (I'm not going to let her in on the secret!)

"oh,it is incredible.The minute I sent the email to you,I got your response.I am so lucky and the speed at which you type is so quick,making me admire you more deeply."

Photography

11-12-09
When we were leaving Lugene's English lecture on Thursday, a young Chinese girl asked if we could help her. She was doing her photography lab and wanted to take some pictures of us. Attached are a couple of her pictures.




November 11, 2009

First Snow...



Early November Updates

Sunday, November 8, 2009

At Church I was thinking about what a great experience we are having. I get to help bless and pass the sacrament almost every Sunday. It is a special spiritual experience to have sacrament meeting with only fifteen members. It makes us feel like we are in the mission field, which in some ways we are. During Church we always have fireworks because of the weddings that take place in the hotel. Sometimes they are so loud we have to stop until they are over to continue with our meeting. It’s also interesting to look out the window and see the big, gold Buddha looking over us.

After Church we always have a pot luck lunch in our apartment. It’s always good food and enjoyable to visit with everyone.



Wednesday, November 11, 2009

In China, you don’t get heat nor air conditioning until it is turned on for the whole city. It is now very cold in Ji’nan. It is in the low 30’s with a cold wind. They haven’t turned on the city heating system yet, so most buildings, including the student dorms and class rooms, are not heated. They say they won’t turn it on until the 15th. Fortunately, the hotel has its own heating system and it is already on. I taught class all day at the west campus. All the students had their coats on and I taught with my winter coat on and a scarf around my neck. It’s different, but it worked. Our apartment is nice and warm so we don’t suffer unless we go out.

I hope all is well with everyone. Feel free to email us or call us. We miss our family and friends.

Dingy...

This story will help you understand how "dingy" your mother and I are getting while we are away. My friend from work sent me an email. (This is the one I go to lunch at Costco with and we visit them in St. George.) Anyway, at the end of the email he said, "Tell LuJean hello for us". I wrote back and said, "By the way, she spells her name LuGene". I always copy myself on the emails so your mother can read them. Needless to say, she was a little perturbed that after all these years I didn't know how to spell her name right. So, I sent my friend an email back and corrected the spelling to Lugene. I then said that after 41 years of marriage I should have it right. Big mistake is that I copied myself on the email. Guess what--we've been married 42 years!!!

Halloween Party

Today is October 31, 2009. It is a Saturday and it is Halloween. Last night a storm came through Ji'nan and today it is cold. We have had a long, warm fall until now.

This afternoon a had a Halloween party with my two writing classes and Lugene's oral English class. I showed a PowerPoint presentation about Utah, BYU and my family. I spent most of the time showing pictures of my family. The class really enjoyed getting better acquainted with us. After the presentation we ate "treats", sang songs, had a raffle of some goodies I had bought for the class, and played some games. Everyone laughed and had a lot of fun. Attached are some pictures from the party. Notice the cool hair I used for my costume!!





October 30, 2009

This morning Mom and Dad went shopping for fruits and vegetables. Attached are some pictures they took.






Mid-October Update

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Today, Lugene taught a class and I worked on my lessons. I had my juniors write a paper in class on “Why I am Proud to be Chinese”. I thought it was an appropriate title since they just celebrated their National Day. Anyway, I had all of the papers to correct. The students did a nice job and I learned a lot about them and their country.

That evening a group of us went out. We first went to the Nelsons apartment. They are the couple who went to the Silk Road with us. They live and teach at a university that is a long way (maybe 10 miles) from the rest of us and none of us had seen their apartment. It is very nice and they were glad we came to visit.

We then went out to eat. We all went into one restaurant and sat down. We then found out it was a “hot pot” restaurant. Some of the people didn’t want that to eat, so we asked the hostess where we could get some traditional Chinese food. She said she would show us, so we all got up and left. Anyway, she went with us for about three blocks until she found the kind of restaurant that we liked. It was very unusual for someone to be this kind. Especially, since they were taking all of their customers to the competition.

After dinner we went to the main square in Ji’nan. Most of us had not been there yet. It was now dark and they had a huge fountain that did a water show accompanied by music. It was very nice. After the show we watched people flying kites in the dark. They have lights on their kites so you can see them in the dark. It was really neat. I bought one to take home with me. We then finished the night with a dish of very expensive, but very good ice cream.



Friday, October 16, 2009

Lugene and I both have a free day on Fridays--no classes. Jay and Dana Thelin called us and wanted to know if we wanted to go play with them since they don’t have classes on Friday either. Before they came to get us, Lugene and I went to the street market and bought some meat and vegetables. We provide the vegetables for the Sunday brunch and Lugene is going to cook with the meat.



After the Thelins came, we took the bus to the TechMart. We then took another bus to the main plaza. We went to a very old part of Ji’nan that is about a block away from the square. It was like walking back in time a 100 years. It is a part of China that people will not be able to experience twenty years from now. We walked around for awhile and decided we wanted lunch. Dana all of a sudden said let’s go in here. It was a very suspect restaurant (as in not very clean). They didn’t have any room for us on the first or second floor so we climbed to the third floor. There was a small room there with tables and small stools. It would probably seat 25-30 people. We were the only ones in the room. The waitress came and we finally figured out something to order. The food came and it was actually very good. When leaving, however, we looked up the stairs to the fourth floor where the kitchen was. It was very scary. Thankfully, the food was very hot, so maybe the spices killed anything bad that would kill us.

After this we took another bus for about a ½ your drive to the zoo. By the zoo are some big markets (large warehouses full of small shops). While we were there I bought me a nice winter coat.



On Friday night, we went to the opening ceremonies of the China National Games. We were invited by the family we tutor, Frank and Helen Hu and their daughter Lilly. Those are their English names. Apparently, the only way to go was to be invited by someone. Our host has a high government position, so he was able to get tickets for us.



The ceremonies were held at the new Ji’nan sports stadium that was built specifically for the games. They have spent four years getting ready for the games and have built sports facilities throughout Shandong province. If I understood it correctly, they spent 4.5 billion U.S. dollars on sports facilities throughout Shandong in preparation for the games.



The games are China’s version of the Olympics. They are held every four years and attract participants from all of the provinces in China. It is a big event. At the opening ceremonies, President Hu Jintao, the president of China, and the Jacques Rogge, president of the International Olympic Committee were there. The following is a description of the games that was in the program.



“The 11th National Games of the People’s Republic of China is to be held in the 17 prefecture-level cities of Shandong Province from October 16-28, 2009, with the main venue set in the capital city of Jinan. It is the largest and highest-level national comprehensive sports games, with 33 sports and 362 events. Forty-six delegations from all provinces, regions and municipalities, Hong King SAR, Macao SAR, Xinjiang Production and Construction Corps and sports associations of all industries will participate in the national games.



“As the host, Shandong developed the following guidelines: guided by the Scientific Outlook on Development, with “Harmonious China, Everybody’s Games” as the theme and “Be First Class, Promote Harmonious Development” as the target, in the principle of “being open, innovative, economical and civilized”, we shall go all out to build first-class stadiums and facilities, carry out first-class organizations, create first-class environment and atmosphere, provide first-class services and logistics, get first-class rankings, achieve first-class results, and in short, host a specific, safe and peaceful, and satisfying session of the national games.”



The opening ceremony was very impressive and very similar to Olympic opening ceremonies. There was the raising of the China, Shandong Province and National Games flags. Then, all of the athletes marched onto the field according to the province they represented. They then had a gala performance with dancers, singers, and many exotic special effects. There were lighted, mechanical seagulls flying through the air. There were acrobats on huge lighted wheels in the air. There were all kinds of special effects on the ground. And of course, there were a lot of fireworks.

The most impressive part of the show was a huge, round fabric screen that descended into the middle of the stadium. As the program progressed they showed videos on the screen as if it were a theatre in the round, with the audience around the screen. You’ll understand better when you see the pictures. Needless to say, we were very impressed.

Silk Road Trip Pictures

If you would like to see some pictures from our silk road trip please click on the link below...

http://westfamilypictures1.shutterfly.com/

Update

Sunday, September 13, 2009

We are part of the Beijing China International District Branch Robert Lewis is our branch president. They have groups organized where there are enough members and priesthood holders to do so. They also have a virtual branch for those who are isolated. These members dial-in to a conference bridge for their meetings.

Today we had sacrament meeting, except for the actual administering and passing of the sacrament, on the conference bridge. They had a pause in the broadcast service so we could do the sacrament service locally. It was really nice to take the sacrament after three weeks. It reminded us of how much we had been missing our Church meetings. After sacrament meeting we had a Gospel Doctrine lesson. After Church we had the pot-luck lunch in our apartment. There were ten members present. There are usually about 15 members who attend. The lunch was nice, but it took a little work to clean up afterwards.



Below is a description of our China District:

Current member count/breakdown (including members whose records are not moved into the branch because of short duration of stay in China):

170 members in 35 cities in 11 organized groups

11 lone members (only member in city)

6 lone couples/families (only members in city)

16 lone sisters (either lone member sisters or small groups of sisters only, ie no priesthood in city so no access to sacrament)

31 Primary and pre-Primary aged children in 9 cities (Changsha, Chengdu, Dalian, Shenyang, Wuhan, Xiamen, Xiangtan, Yongzhou and Yantai)

2 youth (TJ and Maddie Ethington in Dalian)

69 YSA in 21 cities (mostly with the Int'l Language Program or China Horizons program which bring university-aged men and women to China to teach English for 1 or 2 semesters, but other YSAs are here working in other capacities or studying Chinese or as part of other graduate programs)

22 retired seniors, comprised of both singles and couples, including BYU Kennedy Center China Teachers and ex-KC teachers in Jinan, Shandong Province, but also in the ancient cities of Luoyang, Qufu, Tai'an, Weihai and Zhengzhou


Tuesday, September 15, 2009

In the evening we had a branch-wide audio conference with Elder Oaks at our group leader’s apartment. The branch president conducted from Beijing and Elder Oaks talked from Xi’en. There were about 35 locations that participated. The first speaker talked about enjoying the moment. She referred to Laman and Lemuel who wanted to return to Jerusalem so they could enjoy their possessions rather than taking advantage of the opportunities the Lord had provided for them. Sister Oaks spoke about how we are in many locations, but yet we are bound together by the Holy Ghost. President Perkins, the area president, also spoke.

Elder Oaks told a story about a stake conference he attended in Ogden about 10 years ago. He said that as he sat on the stand he looked over the congregation. His eyes were drawn to a lady in a yellow dress. As he continued to scan the audience he kept coming back to her. He finally realized he was being prompted to call on this sister to speak in the conference. After the congregational hymn, and before he spoke, the stake president called her to come to the stand and bear her testimony.

Elder Oaks said he was responsible for the content of the meeting and so he felt he was taking a chance calling her to speak. As she came to the pulpit, he whispered to her to just speak what was in her heart. She explained that she was a nurse and that she worked in a care center for the elderly. She said one of the patients she worked with was the most ornery, evil, mean person she had ever met. She said he was constantly using the call button. When she would go to his room he would spit on the floor so she would have to clean it up. He did this along with other vile things. He used profane language in talking with her.

One evening his call button sounded and she went to his room. When she got there she could see that he had fallen out of bed, had become disconnected from all of his tubing, and was laying on the floor bleeding and writhing. She could tell by looking that he was near death. When she entered the room, she said she felt the very real force, just like an electrical field surrounding him. She knew that God loved this man and cared for him in spite of all of his bad decisions and evil ways. She went to her knees and held him in her arms until he died. She then closed her talk.

Elder Oaks knew that the reason she was called to speak was because he needed to hear this story. He needed to be reminded that God loves all of us in spite of our bad decisions. He needed to be reminded that the Savior has atoned for all of us if we will call upon him and plead for his mercy. It was a very spiritual message and one I also needed to hear.